You know how to love yourself and pamper yourself. You don't need a man to buy you food from a lavish restaurant or exorbiant clothes from an expensive store. You know how to point out your lover's mistakes rather than staying quite and adjusting with it. Even though you are passionate about loving you know self-respect counts more than indulging into love. Being oppressed in a relationship in the name of love is not your cup of tea and you know how to walk out of a toxic relationship.
Waiting for the man of your dreams to make the first move is now a thing of the past. From kneeling down in front of your love with a ring, to paying bills on a date, you know how to break tasks in half and not put the responsibility entirely on your partner. You don't hide your feelings anymore and know that if you love someone, you need to make the first move.
I don't think you need to constantly prove your worth in every field. You don't have to forcefully flaunt your superiority everytime, everywhere. We all have been seeing men who stand for women, compare them to Goddesses. But do we really need that, that synonimity? It's time you stand for men, break the path when they need you. Don't let "You're superior" fool you otherwise. Being smart and kind at the same time never goes out of fashion, you know.
When someone asks you of your plans after 5 years, Don’t limit yourself with a imagination of wearing a red bridal lehngha walking hand in hand with your husband. Instead Imagine yourself wearing a black and white blazer and ruling over industry together.
You can do anything you want, and sometimes you don't need to do anything either. You can take a day off, and eat that last piece of pie without thinking of saving it for someone.
You're so strong to have fought the stereotypes society showers on you, that some days you deserve a day off. You deserve to be you. You're beautiful the way you are.
With love, girl squad
With love, girl squad
