Saturday, 4 May 2024

How I can leave them??

And when the going gets tough and things no longer work out, after a certain number of tries, that's when you choose to exit. Yes, you've tried to fix things, you've tried to do better, stick together, as you should, but even after everything, when nothing gets better, you choose to exit.

But can you really exit? Is it so easy? All those years of memories you created, the dreams you dreamt of, the future you foresaw together, is it so easy to leave it all behind? You find yourself saying goodbye and still coming back, you've grown attached to them more than you should be.

Goodbye? Oh no please, can't we just go back to Page 1 and Do it all over. You try, you really do try, sometimes alone, sometimes together, and everytime you choose to walk away, there's some invisible string pulling from behind. Ah, walking away, ain't so easy right?

They said, Love is the most dangerously beautiful thing in the world. I believe there's something more extreme than love - it's called attachment. Because even when all the love fades away, or even when it hasn't yet grown, attachment stays. You can't easily leave behind someone, all because you're attached.

Otherwise, why do most people still get a slight thought about their ex even when they are in a relationship with someone else? Why do you keep going back tothat toxic person even after knowing how manipulative they are? It's simple really, you're attached, no matter how many times you say goodbye, you can't really leave them.

But how long can you put up with this charade? How long can you keep saying goodbye? Once in a while, you do finally realise, it's time, you muster up the courage and after thousands of goodbyes, you bid the final one. You do what you needed to.

And when the going gets tough and things no longer work out, after a certain number of tries, that's when you choose to exit. For real this time. But, how many times can you say goodbye to a person before you can finally leave them?

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